MYPOEMBOOK

Desperate love

2011-08-20T08:55:00.000-07:00

Bahoot Khushnaseeb kal ki raat guzri.
Kuch tanha par kuch khas guzri
na neend aayi na khwab koi
Bas tere Khayaloon ke saath guzri.

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Apne seene se laga ke mera gum dur karde
tumse juda na ho paoon itna majboor karde
meri nas nas me bas jaye pyar tera
main kisi ko na dekhu itna magroor kar de..

"Beautiful Love"

2011-08-20T08:46:00.000-07:00

Tere Laboon ko chuu loo wo sham aa jayeTere Pyar me bahne ka Paigam aa jayeye zindagi to hai teri amanat.bas mere naam ke saat tera naam aa jaye

Dil ki kalam se.......

2011-08-14T23:02:00.000-07:00

Kabhi Kabhi Sochta Hunnn......................................
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Apke khyal itne haseen kyon hai?
Apke liye dil itna bequrar kyon hai?
Apse milne ko ye jaan tarasti hai.
Apke liye dil ye dharakta kyon hai?

Kabhi Kabhi Sochta Hunnn......................................
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Ankhon me nahi ye kiske liye hai?
Mun youn udas kiske liye hai?
Dard e judai me puchte yahi sawal mujhse .
Tune mujhe bulaya kiske liye hai?

-Arif Rahman

shayri fun

2011-01-01T21:52:00.001-08:00

Hum Ko Samajh Pane Wala

Jindgi Se Pareshan Hain Log Is Jahan Mein
Jindgi Jee Kar Dikhane Wala Koi Koi Hai
Nafrat Hi Nafrat Hai Har Dil Mein Aaj Kal
Paigam Mohabbat Ka Padhne Wala Koi-Koi Hai
Dost To Bahut Mil Jaate Hai Har Raah Mein
Par Dosti Nibhane Wala Koi-Koi Hai
Naa Jindgi Chaahti Hai, Naa Maut Mujhe
Yahan Hum Ko Samajh Pane Wala Koi-Koi Hai

Tum Hum Se Juda Huye

Shikwa-Gila Kiya Na, Bas Hum Yun Hi Khamosh Rahe
Jitne Dard Diye Hain Tumne, Humne Bas Akele Hi Sahe
Bura Haal Hua Hai Is Dil Ka, Hum Hal E Dil Kis Ko Kahein
In Ankon Se Zyada Ye Dil Rota Hai, Jabse Tum Hum Se Juda Huye

Lies Fact...

2010-10-17T00:14:00.001-07:00

Lies Fact...

And what do you know about the lies?

- 81% of people said "harmless lie" every day

- Most people lie 3 times in 10 minutes of conversation

- Following a review of 142 studies, during which 19,801 people (many of whom had experience lies in the recognition of his work) was assessed, lying or not 2,945 people, lies gently was recognized only 54% of cases, only slightly more than 50% that you can dial simply by guessing "yes-no

- 2% of people think that lying is sometimes necessary

- 65% of people think that often / sometimes OK to lie to not hurt someone's feelings

- 44% of people think that often / sometimes possible to exaggerate the events in the story to make it interesting

- 37% of people think that often / sometimes you can lie about his age

- Depressive people are more honest with themselves than the mentally healthy, and when they recover, they become less fair

- 98% of teens say they lie to their parents

- 98% of teens say that trust is very important in personal relationships. 96-98% say that lying is immoral

- 47% of teens say that illegal downloading of music is acceptable, and only 5% considered acceptable stealing from shop

- During the experiment, 32 young people were divided into 2 groups - high and low social status, based on their activity, reported by the parents. Children of high social level lie better. Teens lie better than younger

- 75% of students admit that they become "serial liars * when it comes to saving money or a job

- 40% of parents believe that is normal sometimes lie to children about their own bad behavior in the past

- 68% of women lie about their weight, when the rent on the right

- 91% of women say that the older they become, the easier take themselves, and the lower lying

- 44% of people easier to lie by e-mail, than in manuscript form. During the study, 48 students had to divide $ 89 between themselves and another fictional one group that did not know about the amount of money, but I knew that it varies between $ 5-100 and should decide to accept the proposal or not. When students reported the amount of e-mail, 92% lied when handwritten - 64%

- 15% of employees were caught in a lie directly in the workplace

- 16% of people ever lied to justify "I call on another line" or "I call you back"

- According to the experiment conducted in Australia, 73% of doctors said that washed his hands, and only 9% actually did so;

- 29% of people who are in close relations, acknowledged that lie to their partners about their spending money

- 33% of women lie about their spending money, as well as 26% of men

- 1 out of 10 people had lied during the motor to reduce the contribution

- 15% of people vozrata 18-20 years admit they were wrong to their partners, 11% aged 21-24 years are recognized in the same

- 22% of men say they do not want to call their number of sexual partners

- 17% of men and women aged 18-24 years reported to their sexual partner about the presence of host of sexually transmitted diseases

- 61% of women think that is normal if a man is lying about their appearance

- 26% of men and 9% of women believe adultery to be justified, if their partner is no longer interested in sex

- Betrayal in varying degrees, is the cause of 54% of divorces

- 48% of women say that is normal, when their partner is lying about his attraction to other women

- 39% of women say that is normal when a man is lying about the woman that if she was good in bed

TWENTY IDEAS FOR A KINDER WORLD

2010-09-30T00:44:00.001-07:00

TWENTY IDEAS FOR A KINDER WORLD.....!!

1. Be resolved to become a kind person. How do you do this? Think, speak, and act with kindness.

2. Love kindness. When you do what you love, you are happy. A master of kindness is a master of joy

3. When encountering someone, let your first thoughts be, "What kind words can I say to this person and what kind things can I do?"

4. Keep asking people, "What can I do for you?"

5. Everyone needs encouragement. Ask yourself, "What can I say that will be encouraging?"

6. Wherever you are, you are there for a reason. Ask yourself, "Since I am here now, what kindness can I do?"

7. Every kind person is unique. You have unique talents, skills, knowledge, and resources. Utilize them to help others in your own unique way. Ask yourself, "In what unique ways can I be kind?"

8. Do a daily act of kindness without letting anyone know who did it

8. Learn from every kind act you see or read about. Ask yourself, "How can I learn from this to be kinder?"

9.A valuable rule is, "Even if you don't feel like a kind person, you can still act like one." Think of a kind act you can do that you don't feel like doing.

10. Think of a kindness telephone call that you can make today.

11. Think of a kindness note, letter, or email that you can write today.

12. View your own pain, distress, and suffering as tools for empathy and understanding. Ask yourself, "How can this experience help me be a kinder person?"

13. Keep asking yourself, "If I were this person, what would I want others to do for me?"

14. As soon as you recognize a need, volunteer to do something about it. Don't wait until you are asked.

15.Listen to those who need a listening ear. Listening to someone is a great act of kindness.

16. If you know that someone is looking for a job or needs to earn more money, ask yourself, "What can I do to make it happen?"

17.Be empathetic and compassionate.

18. Be resolved not to cause distress, pain, or loss with your words and action.

19. Learn from everyone. Keep asking people, "What kindnesses from others have you appreciated?"

20. Pray for the welfare of others

Mein tod leta agar ...

2010-09-26T03:51:00.001-07:00

Mein tod leta agar ..

Mein tod leta agar woh gulab hoti,

Mein jawab ban jata agar woh sawal hoti,

Sab jante hain mein nasha nahi karta,

Phir bhi pee leta agar woh sharab hoti.

Who is Employee?

2010-09-25T08:26:00.001-07:00

Employee Kaun Hai

Employee woh hai

jo aksar fasta hai

interviews ke sawaal me

badi companiyon ke jal me

boss aur client ke bawaal me

Employee woh hai

jise intezaar hai

weekend night pe dhoom machane ka

boss ke chhuti par jane ka

increment ki khabar aane ka

Employee woh hai

jo sochta hai

kaash padhai par dhyaan diya hota

kaash teacher se panga na liya hota

kaash ishq na kiya hota.....

Employee woh hai

jo pak gaya hai

meetings ki jhelai me

submissions ki gehraai me

teamwork ki chataai me

Employee woh hai

jo laga rahta hai

schedule ko fislane me

targets ko khiskane me

roz naye naye bahane banaane me

Employee woh hai

jo lunch time me breakfast leta hai

dinner time me lunch karta hai

aur

commutation ke waqt soya karta hai

Employee woh hai

jo paagal hai

chai aur samose ke pyaar mey

cigarette ke khumar mey

birdwatching ke wichaar mey

Employee woh hai

jo khoya hai

reminders ke jawab me

na milne wale hisab me

Behtar bhavisya ke khwab me...

It's true they say that a picture is worth a thousand words.
I don't think there is a better way of explaining our life. Imagine yourself sitting in the black chair..

Live Your Life With Courage

2010-09-25T07:38:00.001-07:00

Live Your Life With Courage

Courage is admitting that you're
Afraid and facing that fear directly.
It's being strong enough to ask for help
And humble enough to accept it.

Courage is standing up for what you
Believe in without worrying about the
Opinions of others.
It's following your own heart,
Living your own life,
And settling for nothing less than
The best for yourself.

Courage is daring to take a first
Step, a big leap, or a different path.
It's attempting to do something that
No one has done before, and
All others thought impossible.

Courage is keeping heart in the face
Of disappointment, and looking at defeat
Not as an end but as a new beginning.
It believes that things will ultimately
Get better even as they get worse.

Courage is being responsible for your
Own actions, and admitting your own
Mistakes without placing blame on
Others. It's relying not on others for
Your success, but on your own skills
And efforts.

Courage is refusing to quit even when
You're intimidated by impossibility.
It's choosing a goal, sticking with it,
And finding solutions to the problems.

Courage is thinking big, aiming high,
And shooting far. It's taking a dream
And doing anything, risking everything,
And stopping at nothing
To make it a reality...

I don;t believe it matters

2010-09-24T19:40:00.001-07:00

I don;t believe it matters
if I used a semicolon or an apostrophe
but that is another subject
an omission we shall discuss later

A duck walk
is not a cake walk

what made me say that?

chickens walk funny too
like people walk when they have to
walk like speed walkers
thats a funny walk

but getting back to what matters

clouds and stars and titty bars
and book learning

I learned a lot of things from books
like how they are bound and how their color changes
being on a shelf for more than five years in one spot

back to ducks
I saw, no, I witnessed a mother duck
attack my boat for coming too close to her young
she played stricken with broken wings
leading me away to be killed by what ever means I wished
giving her life before my eyes if I were given to take it

I don't believe it matters if I would have killed her
this duck
her children would have killed me for the rest of my life
if I ever came to the realization of what I had done
Killing a duck

But to substitute a semicolon for an apostrophe?

I guess some people would write in circles
acting like they have broken brains
if you were to ever come close to written perfection
with your scary prose or poetry

Getting away from ducks
like I did
in a boat
I return now and can;t get away

What is anxiety playmate?

2010-09-24T19:19:00.003-07:00

What is anxiety playmate?

What is anxiety playmate? Playmate, what is agony?
You all say day and night ‘love, love’-
Tell me, playmate, what is love! Is it only torment?
It is only shedding tears? Is that only sorrow’s breathing?
Why then in what expectation of joy
People hopefully embrace such sorrow?
In my eyes all is handsome,
All fresh, all spotless, blue sky, darkgreen wood
Liberal moonlight, soft flower-every thing like me.
They only smile, only sing, wish to die after a sportive game-
knows no pain, knows no crying, above all kinds of agony.
Flowers laugh while they get shed, moonlight smilingly disappears,
In the sea of light the star, all smiles, does his form abandon.
Who is happy like me? Come playmate, come near to me-
The joyous song of a happy heart will feed your mind with solace.
If everyday you cry, why not laugh for a single day-
Forget all sadness for at least a day, let all of us sing together.

Rabindranath Tagore, winner of the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1913.

Where the Mind is Without Fear

2010-09-24T19:19:00.001-07:00

Where the Mind is Without Fear
Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
Where knowledge is free;
Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow domestic walls;
Where words come out from the depth of truth;
Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection:
Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;
Where the mind is lead forward by thee into ever-widening thought and action–
Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.

Rabindranath Tagore, winner of the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1913.

Log poochte hain (Hindi)

2010-09-24T19:10:00.001-07:00

Log poochte hain tum kyun apni mohabbat ka izhaar nahi karte,
Hum ne kaha jo lafzo mai bayaan ho jaaye sirf utna hum un se pyaar nahi karte

Very touching and worth reading.........

2010-09-24T08:51:00.001-07:00

Very touching and worth reading .....!!

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.

He told me that sh e had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said,

She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,
That is the kind of love I want in my life.'
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the best of everything they have.

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.

Natural beauty

2010-09-24T08:30:00.001-07:00

Dog Costume.....

2010-09-24T08:29:00.001-07:00

Let me go

2010-09-24T08:28:00.002-07:00

uff

2010-09-24T08:28:00.000-07:00

Which is yours

2010-09-24T08:27:00.001-07:00

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We will not let you go

2010-09-24T08:26:00.001-07:00

I will see you

2010-09-24T08:25:00.001-07:00

Take my Photo

2010-09-24T08:24:00.001-07:00

Today Burden

2010-09-24T08:23:00.002-07:00

nice salesman

2010-09-24T08:23:00.000-07:00

dont move

2010-09-24T08:22:00.000-07:00

Lets move

2010-09-24T08:21:00.000-07:00

Drink all baby

2010-09-24T08:19:00.002-07:00

lets start blogging

2010-09-24T08:19:00.000-07:00

lets drive

2010-09-24T08:18:00.001-07:00

Sleep carefully

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uffffffffffff

2010-09-24T08:15:00.002-07:00

meri sawari

2010-09-24T08:15:00.000-07:00

Give it the title

2010-09-24T08:14:00.000-07:00

myfootball

2010-09-24T08:12:00.000-07:00

my car

2010-09-24T08:03:00.000-07:00

buy one get two free

2010-09-24T07:50:00.000-07:00

Its my share - dont touch

2010-09-24T07:46:00.001-07:00

safty locks

2010-09-24T07:45:00.001-07:00

wow Riding

2010-09-24T07:42:00.002-07:00

drunk baby

2010-09-24T07:42:00.000-07:00

wastage

2010-09-24T07:40:00.000-07:00

Its happens

2010-09-24T07:36:00.000-07:00

beautifullllllllllll.......................

2010-09-24T07:32:00.000-07:00

lovely cat

2010-09-24T07:18:00.000-07:00

Hey you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2010-09-24T07:16:00.001-07:00

Looking almost same

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Lips excercise

2010-09-24T07:10:00.000-07:00

For cat lover

2010-09-24T06:53:00.000-07:00

Beauty of nature

2010-09-24T06:52:00.000-07:00

Red frog

2010-09-24T06:49:00.000-07:00

Baby

2010-09-24T06:47:00.001-07:00

wallpaper

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Life

2010-09-24T06:45:00.000-07:00

Wall of China

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beautiful female painting

2010-09-24T06:41:00.000-07:00

beautiful indian painting

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beautiful nature...

2010-09-24T06:39:00.000-07:00

india painting

2010-09-24T06:37:00.000-07:00

what a beautiful pic

2010-09-24T06:31:00.000-07:00

BEAUTIFUL EYES.......

2010-09-24T06:30:00.000-07:00

A beautiful photograph of nature warning.

2010-09-24T05:31:00.000-07:00

Awesome Romantic SMS Shayaris

2010-09-23T21:08:00.001-07:00

Awesome Romantic SMS Shayaris

Aapki is dil lagi me hum apna dil kho baithe
Kal tak us khuda k the aaj apke ho baithe.
Pyar suna to tha diwana kr deta hai
Aaj khud krke hum bhi hosh kho baithe

Kyun tumhare is ashiq ka parwano me naam lete ho
Keh kar ke dil doge humari jaan lete ho.
Pata hai nahi rakh sakte hum apni dhadkano pe kaabu
Phir kyun humari mohabbat ka imtehan lete ho. *

Dil unke liye he machalta hai
Thokar khata hai or sambhalta hai.
Kisi ne is kadar kar liya dil par kabja
Dil mera hai per unke liye dhadkta hai.*

Mohabbat or mout dono hi
Bin bulaye mehmaan hote hai,
Kab aa jaye koi nahi jaanta.
Lekin dono ka ek hi kaam hai
Ek Dil le jati hai to doosri Dhadkan.*

Jab khuda ne tujhe banaya hoga
Ek aadha jaam to usne bhi lagaya hoga.
Aise hi nashili nahi teri aankhen
Jaam ka kuch asar to tere mein bhi aaya hoga.*

Aaj har ek pal khoobsurat hai
Dil main teri sirf teri surat hai.
Kuch bhi kahe ye duniya gum nahi
Duniya se jiada humko teri zarurat hai.

Kuch log zindgi me is kdar shamil ho jate hain
Agar bhulna chaho to or yad ate hain.
Bas jate hain wo dil me is kadar
Ke ankhen band kro to samne nazar aate hain.

Apko dekhkar ye nigah jhuk jayegi
Khamoshi har bat keh jayegi.
Pad lena in ankhon mei apne pyar ko
Apki kasam sari kaynaat wahi ruk jaegi.

Hum to pyaar k saudagar hain
Sauda sacha karte hai
Par jab aap jaise dost ho khariddaar
To hum muft me bhi bik jaya karte hain.

Hamari dastan use kaha kubul thi
Meri wafayen uske liye fizool thi.
Koi aas nahin lekin koi itna bata do
Maine chaha use kya ye meri bhool thi.

Tinka-2 tufan mein bikharte chale gaye
Tanhai ki gehraion mein utarte chale gaye.
Udte thay jinke sahare aasmano mein hum
Ek-ek karke sab bichadte chale gaye.

Fresh flowers are waiting to disturb u
Hot coffe waiting to taste ur lips
Sun, birds, cool air all r looking
At ur window to say u Good morning
*Have nice day.*

Girls father- Main nahi chahta ki meri beti
Apni puri zindgi 1 gadhe k sath guzare.
Boyfriend- Bus, isiliye main use
Yaha se le jane aya hun

Unki ek yaad bechan kar jati hai
Har cheez me unki surat nazar aati hai.
Aisa hal kiya unhone pyar me hamara
Ke nind aati hai to ankhen bura maan jati hain.

Is dil ka ik arman hai
ik chand me hmari jaan hai.
Jise dur se dekhna to mumkin hai
Par milna kahan aasan hai.
Kyon ki hum to ik zameen hain
Arr Vo ik aasman hai

Behte aashkon ki zubaan nahi hoti
Lafzon mein mohabat bayaan nahi hoti.
Mile jo pyar to kadar karna
Kismat har kisi par maherban nahi hoti.

Ishq aisa karo ki dharkn mein bs jaye
Saans bi lo to khushboo usi ki aye.
Pyar ka nasha aankhon pe cha jaye
Baat kuch bi na ho pr nam usi ka aye.

Ek lamha jo baar baar satata hai
Na jaane yeh dil kya chahta hai.
Kaash aap hote hamari nazron k saamne
Par yeh kaash kaash hi reh jata hai.

Sache dil se karo fariyaad to
Duniya ki har ek cheez milti hai.
Jis par khuda ki rehmat ho jaye
Use kaanto me bhi khushbu milti hai.

Koi achi si saja do mujhko
chalo bhula do mujhko.
Tumse dosti tute us din maut aa jaye mujhko
dil ki gahraiyon se dua do mujhko.

Hating hundred right persons
may not even touch your heart,
but loving one Wrong person
will leave you a brokn heart
throughout ur life !!!

Shararat na hoti Shikayat na hoti
Nainon me kisi ke Nazakat na hoti

Na hoti bekarari Na hote hum tanha*
Agar jahan me kambakht Ye mohabat na hoti

*Na hote ye sapne Ye khwabon ki duniya
*Kisi ko chahat ki Tamanna na hoti

*Na julfo ki chaya Na phulon ki khushbu
*Yadon me unki Ye rate na kat ti

*Jo na hoti mohabat Ye ansu na hote
*Dil bhi na khota Aj tanha na rota*

*Diwanon si apni Ye halat na hoti
*Agar jahan me kambakht Ye MoHoBBaT na hoti.

Maths teacher to santa,if u had 1000Rs
in ur pocket and 1000Rs in d other pocket,
wat would u think ?
Santa: YEH PANT KIS KI HAI.

Na wakt hai itna ki sylabus pura kiya jae
na tarkib koi ki exam pas kiya jae.
Na jane kaun sa dard diya hai is padhai ne
na roya jaye aur na soya jaye.

SELF MANAGEMENT

2010-09-23T21:02:00.001-07:00

SELF MANAGEMENT

1. Specify a clear cut goal you want to accomplish. And be very specific. Like I'll write for four hours a day, or run three miles, or do 30 push ups, or can 24 quarts of tomatoes, or spend an hour crocheting.

2. Specify when you'll do it. Like everyday, Monday through Friday, or every morning, seven days a week, or at 10:00 am on Thursday.

3. Record your hit rate. Make a record of your successes and your failures, like a graph of the numbers of hours per day or a note on your calendar of the number of miles run each day.

4. Make a public commitment. Tell someone what your goals and your deadline are. And even ask them to check on you to see if you got it done. That's a subtle way of arranging for a little mild social reward or punishment, approval or disapproval, depending on whether you get the job done. No big deal, but it helps.

5. Add an explicit penalty for failure, if you need to. Tell your monitor you'll pay them a quarter or a dollar or take them out to lunch for each of your failures. But keep the penalty small, almost at a joke level, otherwise everyone will start getting uptight, and you're liable to fib a bit.

6. Think small. Don't try to make up for your past sins in a single day. If you've got a hundred letters to write, don't contact to do them all right away. A postcard a day may be infinitely better than you're doing now. Going for too much too soon is why many people fail at self-management. That's a big one so watch out for it.

7. Specify the amount of product you're going to produce. If simply specifying the amount of time you're going to log in doesn't do the trick, in other words, if you just sit there goofing off, specify the number of rows you're going to knit, the number of pages you're going to read, or whatever.

8. Get a timer that beeps every five minutes and chart whether you're on task, if you find yourself drifting off too much. This is especially good when you might have trouble measuring the amount of the product. Like when you're doing spring cleaning, but may get distracted too easily by Better Homes and Gardens.

9. Arrange for regular contact with your monitor, daily or weekly as needed. This is another one of those week points in the system. It helps to put your self-management project on the agenda with someone you meet with regularly and formally, a superior, a peer, or a sub-ordinate -- it doesn't matter.

10. Arrange for your friend to monitor your graphing as well as your goal attainment. I think it's important to keep a good record of your performance so you'll be motivated not to mess up that pretty record, but you might also need to contract your charting, or that charting may fall out.

11. "Put Satan behind you." Get rid of distractions. Try to do your work when and where no one can bother you. Watch out for that phone. And we can blow a whole morning sorting through our junk mail and new magazines. Get as many tempting distractions out of your work environment as possible. Put the axe to the TV set.

12. Recycle. Your self-management project may not work the first time you try it. And it will certainly fall apart from time to time, so be prepared with some scotch tape and bubble gum to put it back together again. Remember, you do not demean yourself by using these explicit self-management techniques. Use them and you'll be in the company of some of the world's most productive people.

Someways to life.

2010-09-23T20:50:00.001-07:00

1. Start Each Day with a Creative State of MinD
As you open your eyes to greet the new day, spend the first few minutes thinking of the things that bring you the most happiness and comfort. It can be your family, your faith, or a special goal or project you have set for yourself.

In addition, spend a couple of brief moments thinking about the most exciting thing that happened to you yesterday. Savor this experience and allow the feelings to spill over into the new day.

Create a picture in your mind of how you want the day to unfold. Visualize it clearly and attractively in your mind. Imagine the people you want to meet, the things you want to accomplish or experience, and the fun you want to enjoy. Then, no matter the problems or obstacles you encounter, keep this mental snapshot with you and refer back it to when needed.

2. Begin Conditioning Your Mind for a Good Day, Every Day

Just like what we pay attention to grows, we also become what we think. Ralph Waldo Emerson writes, A man is what he thinks about all day long.

So the question becomes how can we learn to develop the right kind of thoughts to get the most out of each and every day? It begins with starting your day with positive thoughts. Then it becomes very important to condition you mind to keep doing this. Consider the following:

Practice letting go of fear or any other self-limiting thought that keeps you from achieving what you want to have in your life.
Practice replacing the negative thoughts in your mind with more positive ones. Fill your mind with what you want to have; not what you want to avoid. In fact, say aloud what you want. Allow your mind, and heart, to hear it.
Surround yourself with positive people and activities. Attempt to avoid, or at least ignore, those folks and things that are toxic for you.
Walk the talk: Be positive. Say nice things " and really mean them.
Start each day with a prayer or a special request. You will be surprised how often you receive what you ask for when you condition your mind to focus on the positive.

3. Understand Every Day is a Gift

Make it a goal, a priority, to appreciate each and every day. Too often we get caught-up with planning and scheduling our lives, but not living our lives. Make a list, right now, of all of the things you want to see or do in your life.

Use this day to pick an item from the list and perform one action that will move you closer to achieving it. Confidence builds and motivation soars when we use our days to move forward to fulfilling our heart's desire. Today is a gift we have been given. Allow this day to live within your heart. Allow this day to move you closer to your life's purpose and passion.

4. Keep Your Emotions Under Control

Exerting your control is not necessarily a bad thing, especially when it comes to your emotions. The controlled person is a powerful person. He or she who always keeps their head will get ahead. Iâ€™ve seen numerous people ruin their whole day because of the lack of emotional control.

Pay attention to the times when you begin to emotionalize rather than to think. When you feel your emotions begin to trump logic, stop and regroup. Sit quietly and think: What would a logical and rational person do in this situation? You will get your answer if you pay attention and keep listening.

5. Do One Thing, Every Day, to Feel Healthier

There is a mind - body connection. It is difficult to have a good day when you do not feel well mentally or physically. Besides going to the doctor for check-ups and the like, there are emotional, mental and spiritual things you can do each day. Here are a few ways to begin feeling healthier today and every day:

Think health, not sickness. Remember, what you think about grows. Stop looking for things to go wrong with your health or body. Instead, think positively about your physical health. Mental images tend to reproduce themselves.
Attempt to free your mind of ill thoughts and attitudes. Learn to replace ill will with goodwill to create a healthier state of mind. The relationship between the mind and its influence on your physical conditions is significant. Purge your mind of resentment, frustrations and anger and you will release tensions that only exacerbate physical illness.
Make one deliberate choice each day regarding what you eat and drink. Opt for water instead of a diet cola, for example. Go with the salad for your combo meal instead of the French fries.
Add up every reason for being happy, thankful and healthy. Also, add up reasons for your health and happiness. You will be surprised at how many reasons you will find. Place these reasons in your reserve tank and tap into them when you feel your energy getting low.

6. Give More Than You TakE
It is our responsibility to have a good day and to resist the temptation to surrender or simply give up. Just as we expect great things from Life; Life also expects great things from each one of us.

Think of your life as a bank savings account. Your job is to make meaningful deposits of love, grace and kindness every day. Your focus should not be in how much interest you are earning, but rather how many deposits you are making
There will be come a day, however, when you will need to make a withdrawal. By giving more than you take, you will have all the resources necessary to receive what you need; when you need it the most
7. Finish the Day Strong

It is important how we begin the day; it is also important how we end the day. Begin it right, live it right, think it right and end it right " and you can have a good day every day.

At the end of each day, imagine there is a large balloon in your stomach filled with all of the day,s activities. Practice feeling the sensation of releasing the air in this balloon and with it, all of your responsibilities. Allow your mind to rest while your body rests and feel the day's tensions drift away.

As your drift off to sleep tonight, count your blessings and name them, one by one. Acknowledge them and give them life. When you do, these same blessings will be waiting for you tomorrow ready to help you get the most out of the new day

Safety tips for your pc

2010-09-23T09:05:00.001-07:00

Keep your computer happy and healthy

Computers are great tools, but like it or not surfing the web, downloading files and using e-mail can put your PC at risk. If you're nervous, you need not be. We've got the tools to help.

To avoid potential security concerns, guard against losing important documents and ensure your computer runs at its best, we've compiled 11 articles that will help you take better care of your PC. Since you use your computer all the time, wouldn't you like it to perform as well as it possibly can?

1. What's a firewall?
A firewall helps guard your PC against hackers and some computer viruses that try to reach your computer when it's connected to the Internet. This article will help you understand why you need a firewall.

2. Keep your PC virus-free
A computer with a virus becomes a slow, unhappy computer. Find out how to ensure your PC stays happy and healthy with a look at the latest in antivirus protection.

3. The ins and outs of installing antivirus software
You know you need it, but how do you get it? This article will show you how to find and install the best protection for your PC.

4. Don't get hooked by e-mail scams
Learn to distinguish between legitimate e-mail and those that just appear as if they're from a trusted source. The more you know, the less likely you'll be to give out sensitive information to someone who shouldn't have it.

5. Secure your computer with simple tips
Staying on top of computer security may seem daunting, but there are many small things you can do to ensure your PC stays in tip-top shape.

6. Shop safely on the Web
Online shopping has its perks speed and convenience to name two but there are risks. Know what to look out for with these simple tips.

7. Back up your computer files
Misplacing a lip gloss or remote control is bad enough. Losing an important document can be devastating. Learn the ins and outs of backing up your files to avoid potential frustration.

8. Protect and purge your personal files
We keep a lot of important information on our PCs. Learn how to protect your personal documents and get rid of them when it's time to buy a new computer.

9. Click with caution be careful where you surf
Kids love using the computer as much as adults, but we can't always be there to monitor them. Keep your children and your PC safe and secure with parental controls.

10. Protect with parental controls how to safeguard your computer
Choose Security from the first drop-down menu and easily find answers to all your commonly asked questions about viruses, phishing scams and avoiding spam.

is it you???

2010-09-23T05:14:00.001-07:00

One day, all the employees reached the office and they saw a big
advice on the door on which it was written:
"Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this
company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room
that has been prepared in the gym."
At first everyone was sad to hear that one of their colleagues had
died, but after a while they started getting curious about who this
person might be.
The excitement grew as the employees arrived at the gym to pay their
last respects.
Everyone wondered: "Who is this person who was hindering my progress?
Well, at least he's no longer here!"
One by one the employees got closer to the coffin and when they looked
inside it they suddenly became speechless. They stood over the coffin,
shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of
their soul.
There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it
could see himself. There was also a sign next to the mirror that said:
"There is only one person who is capable to set limits to your growth:
it is YOU."
YOU are the only person who can revolutionize your life.
YOU are the only person who can influence your happiness, your
realization and your success.
YOU are the only person who can help yourself.
Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends
change, when your company changes.
Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting
beliefs, when you realize that YOU ARE the only one responsible for
your life.
The most important relationship you can have, is the one you have with
yourself"
Examine yourself, watch yourself. Don't be afraid of difficulties,
impossibilities and losses: be a winner, build yourself and your
reality.
The world is like a mirror: it gives back to anyone the reflection of
the thoughts in which one has strongly believed.
The world and your reality are like mirrors lying in a coffin, which
show to any individual the death of his divine capability to imagine
and create his happiness and his success.
It's the way you face Life that makes the difference.

5 MINUTES FOR LEARNING CHINESE.......

2010-09-19T00:53:00.001-07:00

5 MINUTES FOR LEARNING CHINESE.......

That's not right...
Sum Ting Wong

Are you harboring a fugitive?...
Hu Yu Hai Ding?

See me ASAP...
Kum Hia Nao

Stupid Man...
Dum Gai

Small Horse...
Tai Ni Po Ni

Did you go to the beach?...
Wai Yu So Tan?

I bumped into a coffee table...
Ai Bang Mai Ni

I think you need a face lift...
Chin Tu Fat

It's very dark in here...
Wai So Dim?

I thought you were on a diet...
Wai Yu Mun Ching?

This is a tow away zone...
No Pah King

Our meeting is scheduled for next week...
Wai Yu Kum Nao?

Staying out of sight...
Lei Ying Lo

He's cleaning his automobile...
Wa Shing Ka

Your body odor is offensive...
Yu Stin Ki Pu

Can you face this interview?

2010-09-08T09:31:00.001-07:00

Can u pass this interview ......??

INTERVIEW REJECTS

So next time when u go for an interview be prepared for this question....

Story I
E: Do u have a boyfriend?
C: I have.
E: Is he working Locally?
C: No. He is working Overseas.
E: Sorry, my company cannot employ u!
C: Why?
E: U will not be able to settle down here permanently. And my Company don't want to pay extra expenses on the Overseas calls just because of u.

Story II
E: Any girl friends?
C: No.
E: So far chased any before?
C: Have, but not successful.
E: Ever think of getting a job first then start looking for a girlfriend?
C: Career is first priority. Currently didn't want to consider This personal issue.
E: Sorry, my company cannot employ u.
C: Why?
E: You are lacking of P.R skills and confidence!!

Story III
E: Any girlfriends?
C: Yes.
E: Is she pretty?
C: Not quite.
E: Sorry, my company cannot employ you.
C: Why? Will this affect your company's reputation?
E: No, it does not affect the company's reputation but because My company
is dealing with arts, our company requested an artist.

Story IV
E: Any girlfriends?
C: Yes.
E: Is she pretty?
C: Yes.
E: Is she your first lover?
C: Yes.
E: Sorry, we can't employ you because you lack of fighting spirit.

Story V
E: Any girlfriends?
C: Yes.
E: Is she your first lover?
C: No. Have a few already.
E: Sorry, my company cannot employ you because you are a "grasshoper" !
(Job hoper lah!)

Story VI
E: Any boyfriends?
C: Yes.
E: Is he rich?
C: No.
E: Then sorry, my company cannot employ you because our Company is dealing with money and you will seduce.

Story VII
E: Any boyfriends?
C: Yes.
E: Is he rich ?
C: Yes, very rich.He owns a company.
E: Sorry, we cannot employ you because your boyfriend don't Even want to employ you, neither do we!
C: But,...... there is no position in his company.
E: Then,..... what is your qualification?
C: Secretary!
E: Sorry, we still cannot employ you because your prettiness Will affect our managers' working spirits.
C: But,...... I am not pretty at all.
E: It is even worse because my managers will not be interested In you!!

EK HAQIQAT

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EK HAQIQAT .......!!

Mai maut se darta hu bahot,
Par ek din marna hai zaroor,

Mai kafan dekh kar laraz jata hu,
Par ek din pehan na hai zaroor,

Mai janaza dekh kar gamgeen ho jata hu,
Par ek din mera janaza uthna hai zaroor,

Mai qabar k andhere se kaanp jata hu,
Par is mai ek din jana hai zaroor,

Yeh dunya acchi lagti hai,
par isko ek din chhod k jana hai zaroor,

Phir bhi maine aakhirat ki tayyari nahi ki,
Par ALLAH ko hissab dena hai zaroor......

Something about life ....

2010-09-08T09:10:00.001-07:00

Lovely Thoughts About Life ....

A short walk is so difficult,
when no one walks with you.
But a long journey is just like few steps
when you walk with someone
who loves and cares for you.



We always look and care for the person
whom we love the most.
But we fail to look back at those
who love us the most.



Death's not the greatest loss in life..
The greatest loss is when
relationships die inside us while
we are still alive...



Life is not about the people
who act true on your face..
Its about the people who
remain true behind your back..



Time decides whom you meet in life…
Your heart decides whom you want in life..
but your behaviors decides
who will stay in your life...



You can win life by all means..
Yes..
If you simply avoid two things...
1. Comparing - with others
2. Expecting - from other
Life will be more beautiful!!

Tum Udas mat hona........

2010-09-08T08:55:00.000-07:00

Tum udas mat hona ......!!

agar kabhi koi lamha
aisa zakhm de jaye
k koi bhi marham us
zakhm ko na bhar paye
Tum udas mat hona
Tum mayush mat hona
zindgi k sub mausam
saray log ay humdum
aik se nahi hote
zindgi ki rahon main
hadsey bhi atey hain
hadson se barh ker kuch
waaqay bhi atay hain

waqt k hi marhum se
zakhm bhar bhi jatay hain
din buray hon ya achay
bus guzer hi jatay hain

waqt ko guzerna hai
zakhm ko bhi bherna hai
dard k charhay derya
ko abhi uterna hai
Tum udas mat hona
Tum mayush mat hona

Kya Yehi Hota Pyar Hai

2010-09-07T17:21:00.001-07:00

Kya Yehi Hota Pyar Hai

Kyon door ho kar bhi

Koi dil ke paas rehta hai.

Dil ke paas ho kar bhi

Kyon us ka intezaar rehta hai.

Yeh kaisa dard hai

Jo meetha sa lagta hai.

Mehfil mein hoon magar

Mujhe tanha sa lagta hai.

Kyon ham har pal

Unke khayaalon mein khoy rehte hain.

Unke hi khayaalon se

Apni duniya sajaaye rehte hain.

Kyon lagta hai

Ham unke bina adhoore hain.

Mil jaaye agar woh

To saare sapne pooray hain

WO AISA HOO ...

2010-09-03T22:04:00.001-07:00

WO AISA HOO .......!!

na wo farishta ho na farishtey jaisa ho mujhe talash hai uski jo mere jaisa ho
mere khuloos ko pehchanta ho bas kafi hai wo koi bhi ho kahin bhi ho
kaisa bhi ho

agar kabhi rooth jaon main us se to muskura ke manaye wo aisa ho
jo baat kare to wo nibha bhi sake iraadon mai apne wo chattano jaisa ho
dukhon mai hasne ka hunar jaanta ho ek aisa humsafar jo samandar ki
tarah gehra ho uske pyar ki thandak ho mere liye aisi ke wo to
bilkul aasmaan ke chand jaisa ho

wo sirf mera ho jo nighaahon mai haya rakhta ho umar bhar sath chalne
ko azam-e-wafa rakhta ho jo khwaab dene ko qadir ho meri aankhon ko
meri mohabbat ko pehchan sake wo aisa ho....

BEAUTIFUL EYES............

2010-09-01T08:09:00.000-07:00

BEAUTIFUL EYES............

How can I forget her beautiful eyes...

Her eyes were as cool as the ice...

I saw a foreigner girl in front of my eyes...

She was gazing into my eyes...

I was loosing control on my eyes...

Her eyes were extremely beautiful n very nice...

I thaught I'm just dreaming all this at night...

Because I hadn't seen before such beautiful eyes...

Her beautiful eyes were as blue as the sky...

A lot of people were all around...

Like there was no sole n sight...

It all was being in front of my eyes...

How can I forget her beautiful eyes...

She suddenly came close in front of my eyes...

Even she suddenly dissappeared in front of my eyes...

It was an everlasting moment of my life...

I don't remember her face n smile...

But whenever I close my eyes...

Her beautiful eyes get appear in front of my eyes..

How can I forget her beautiful eyes..........!!!

Regards
Ajay Yadav

What is Love

2010-08-30T21:31:00.001-07:00

What is Love

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...
then it's not love..
it's - Infatuation . . .

If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because
others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love..
it's - compromise . . .

If you love some one because you think that you cannot live with out
his touch ....
then it's not love ..
it's - lust . . .

If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...
then it's not love..
it's - inferiority complex . . .

If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it
would hurt his feelings ..
then it's not love ..
it's - charity . . .

If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...
then it's not love..
it's - friendship . . .

but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when
he is stable
and you cry for him ..
that's - LOVE . . .

What I Love About You ........!!

2010-08-29T05:12:00.001-07:00

What I Love About You ........!!

What I Love About You

I love the way you look at me,
Your eyes so bright and blue.
I love the way you kiss me,
Your lips so soft and smooth.

I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.
I love the way you say, "I Love You,"
And the way you're always there.

I love the way you touch me,
Always sending chills down my spine.
I love that you are with me,
And glad that you are mine.

- Crystal Jansen -

Why..........!!

2010-08-29T05:06:00.001-07:00

Why......... .!!

Jisne humko chaha, use hum chah na sake,
Jisko chaha usae hum pa na sake,
Yeh samajh lo dil tutne ka khel hai,
Kisi ka toda aur apna bacha na sake.

Manzilein bhi uski thi, raasta bhi uska tha;
Ek hum hi akele thei, kafilaa bhi uska tha;
saath chalne ki soch bhi uski thee,

Fir raasta badalne ka faisla bhi uska tha;
aaj akele haindil sawaal karta hai
Log to uske the, or zamana bhi uska tha.

teri aankhon se kaash koi ishara to hota,
kuch to meri jaan jeene ka sahara to hota,
tod dete hum har ek rasam zamane ki,
tune ek baar mohabbat se pukara to hota!!!!!!

...............................

Just Three Days.......By Ajay Yadav

2010-08-27T21:23:00.001-07:00

JUST THREE DAYS..........
(Something about life)
Usually we are taught that there are seven days in a week and we can
vouch it that it's true, there are truely seven days in a week. Now
let me drag your kind attention towards the another aspect. When we
think over the life, we find that life has just three days......just
three days...nothing else. It's some kind of strange thing that a week
has seven days but the entire life has just three days. I guess, right
now you are thinking that is it some kind of joke? No.......! It's
true that there are just three days in our entire life and these days
are YESTERDAY, TODAY AND TOMORROW. Let me give you a brief summary
about these days........
YESTERDAY is like a Cancelled Cheque. It's a piece of rough paper,
completely useless for us. Mostly we leave it in a dustbin. Don't
think much over them......
TOMORROW is like a Promissery Note. It's a suspecious instrument as a
promise, has no any certainty. So please, never blindly rely on
them......
Only TODAY is real and actual Cash we have in our hands. So, we should
spent it wisely because it makes our future better. But it only
depends on that what we do Today........
Just think it over.................................
Regards
Ajay Yadav.

From the bottom of my heart...... By Ajay Yadav

2010-08-27T09:53:00.001-07:00

* Hawaon mein uski khusboo ka ehsaas karta hoon.....,
Har garhi har pal bus usko hi yaad karta hoon.........,
Yun toh karta hoon main har chehre se baatein........,
Par naa jaane kyun...............................................,
Har chehre mein sirf uska hi chehra talaash karta hoon......!

* Ankhon mein uski tasveer kuch iss kadar bus gayi hai......,
Raaton ko jaagna ab meri taqdeer ban gayi hai.......,
Kaise nikaaloon teri yaadon ko mein apne iss dil se....,
Teri yaadon ki iss dil mein ek lakeer si ban gayi hai.......!

* Jo mera ho nahi sakta usse pyar karne ka gunaah kiya hai maine.......,
   Zindgi ne hazaron dukh diye par sabko dil mein hi chupa liya maine.....,
   Pyar toh woh bhi mujhse be-intehan karti thi par naa jaane kyun........,
   Rab ne usko bhi mujhse door kar diya..., aakhir aisa kya gunaah
   kiya maine.....!

* Kehtein hain pyar mein koi bandhan nahi hota,
   Par majbooriyaan bahaut hoti hain..........,
   Kehtein hain pyar ki koi seema nahi hoti,
   Par issmein dooriyaan bahaut hoti hain........,
   Kehtein hain sachcha pyar rab se bhi uncha hota hai.....,
   Par phir bhi duniya ko isse jalan bahaut hoti hain........!

* Rab jaane yeh zindgi ka safar ab kahan lekar jayega......,
   Kya yeh dil tumhe saari umar yuhin dhoondta reh jayega....,
   Bus isshi umeed par har raah par chal padta hoon main....,
   Kahin naa kahin toh mujhe tera chehra..tera saaya....nazar aayega........!!

Written By
Ajay Yadav

kaun kahta hai?

2010-08-26T04:13:00.000-07:00

kaun kahta hai uske bina mar jaunga,
Dariya hu sagar me utar jaunga,
wo taras jayenge pyaar ki ek boond k liye,
main to badal bankar kisi or pe baras jaunga....

REMEMBER

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REMEMBER

Remember the sky that you were born under,
know each of the star's stories.

Remember the moon, know who she is. I met her
in a bar once in Iowa City.

Remember the sun's birth at dawn, that is the
strongest point of time. Remember sundown
and the giving away to night.

Remember your birth, how your mother struggled
to give you form and breath. You are evidence of
her life, and her mother's, and hers.

Remember your father. He is your life also.

Remember the earth whose skin you are:
red earth, black earth, yellow earth, white earth
brown earth, we are earth.

Remember the plants, trees, animal life who all have their
tribes, their families, their histories, too. Talk to them,
listen to them. They are alive poems.

Remember the wind. Remember her voice. She knows the
origin of this universe. I heard her singing Kiowa war
dance songs at the corner of Fourth and Central once.

Remember that you are all people and that all people are you.

Remember that you are this universe and that this universe is you.

Remember that all is in motion, is growing, is you.

Remember that language comes from this.

Remember the dance that language is, that life is.

Remember...

When we share laughter.........NICE POEM

2010-08-24T19:23:00.001-07:00

When we share laughter

When we share laughter,
There's twice the fun;
When we share success,
We surpass what we've done.

When we share problems,
There's half the pain;
When we share tears,
A rainbow follows rain.

When we share dreams,
They become more real;
When we share secrets,
It's our hearts we reveal.

If we share a smile,
Then our love shows;
If we share a hug,
Then our love grows.

If we share with someone
On whom we depend,
That person becomes
Family or friend.

And what draws us closer
And makes us all care,
Is not what we have,
But the things that we share.

HAVE A NICE DAY
WITH BEST WISHES

Some Beautiful lines...

2010-08-23T20:51:00.001-07:00

A fact of life be careful to whom you give importance, because when
you give importance to someone you are not only giving that person
right to love you but also the power to heart you.
Love is a medicine of any kind of pain. But there is no medicine found
in the world for pain given by the love.
When a person whom you love, reject you, don't be upset coz you have
lost a person whom never loved you but that person lost someone who
always loved him
Eyes expressed the real feeling better than the words. Touch shows
the care than any word do. But words when used properly can catch the
eyes and touch the heart…..

I'll Never Love Again--

2010-08-23T01:37:00.001-07:00

I'll Never Love Again--

I'll love you forever,
We will never part.
Together forever.
Words straight from the heart.

These words I told you,
And I meant what I said.
But the fire has died down,
The affection is dead.

"She said it's over,"
Your best friend told me.
YOU COULDN'T DO IT ON YOUR OWN?
You broke my heart, you see.

The heartbreak was too much,
I won't be hurt again.
No more late phone calls,
No more girlfriends.

I can't believe you hurt me.
I thought our love was true…
How could you do this?
WHAT DID I EVER DO TO YOU?

But I've lost you forever.
Even as a friend.
And one lesson you've taught me,
I'LL NEVER LOVE AGAIN!

Winner VS Losers ......!!

2010-08-21T21:45:00.001-07:00

Winner VS Losers ......!!

The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
The Loser says, "That is not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.

Winners say, "I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation.

Shines forever in our hearts.

2010-08-17T10:36:00.001-07:00

Shines forever in our hearts.

I learned that God sends friends when
we need them the most and every friend
has a special purpose in our lives.
I learned that we often find
new friends in unexpected places.

I learned that despite the distance
between us, a real friendship grows
across the miles.
I learned that though we sometimes
expect someone to kick us down,
a true friend helps us stand back up.

I learned that we should not wait to
express our appreciation for our friends--
if we do, it will be too late.
I learned that we should be open to a
friend's view as two people can look at the
same thing and see something different.

I learned that we should not judge
our friends but respect their
way of life even if we disagree with it.
I learned that we should not only
take the time to talk to our friends,
but we should also listen and try
to understand.
If we can't understand,
we should accept.

I learned that our friends should
always take something good away with
them each time they cross our path.

I learned that friends sometimes
hurt us unintentionally, but we
should forget and forgive.

I learned that friends change
over time and that such change should
be welcomed as it's necessary for growth.
I learned that friends sometimes need
time and space, and we should
be thoughtful and understanding
of their needs.

I learned that you should treat a friend
kindly today, for the people we love the most
are often taken away from us too soon.
I learned that friendship is a candle
that lights our way, and though
it flickers against the
winds of time, distance, and change,
its beauty endures
and shines forever in our hearts.

Share this poem with your friend's!
Let them know how special they are to you.

A Beautiful Poem..

2010-08-17T10:07:00.000-07:00

    It was early in the morning at four,

    When death knocked upon a bedroom door.

    Who is there? The sleeping one cried.
    I'm Malkul Maut, let me inside.

    At once, the man began to shiver,
    As one sweating in deadly fever,

    He shouted to his sleeping wife,
    Don't let him take away my life.

    Please go away, O Angel of Death!
    Leave me alone; I'm not ready yet.

    My parents and family on me depends,
    Give me a chance, O please prepense!

    The angel knocked again and again,
    Friend! I'll take your life without a pain,

    Tis your soul Allah requires,
    I come not with my own desires..

    Bewildered, the man began to cry,
    O Angel I'm so afraid to die,

    I'll give you gold and be your slave,
    Don't send me to the unlit grave.

    Let me in, O Friend! The Angel said,
    Open the door; get up from your bed,

    If you do not allow me in,
    I will walk through it, like a Jinn.

    The man held a gun in his hand,
    Ready to defy the Angel's stand..

    I'll point my gun, towards your head,
    You dare come in; I'll shoot you dead.

    By now the Angel was in the room,
    Saying, O Friend! Prepare for you doom.

    Foolish man, Angels never die,
    Put down your gun and do not sigh.
    Whyy are you afraid! Tell me O man,
    To die according to Allah's plan?
    Come smile at me, do not be grim,
    Be Happy, to return to Him.

    O Angel! I bow my head in shame;
    I had no time to take Allah's Name.

    From morning till dusk, I made my wealth,
    Not even caring for my own health.

    Allah's command I never obeyed,
    Nor five times a day I ever prayed.

    Ramadan came and a Ramadan went,
    But I had no time to repent.

    The Hajj was already FARD on me,
    But I would not part with my money.

    All charities I did ignore,
    Taking usury more and more.

    Sometimes I sipped my favorite wine,
    With flirting women I sat to dine...

    O Angel! I appeal to you,
    Spare my life for a year or two.

    The Laws of Quran I will obey,
    I'll begin my SALAT this very day.

    My Fast and Hajj, I will complete,
    And keep away from self-conceit.

    I will refrain from usury,
    And give all my wealth to charity,

    Wine and wenches I will detest,
    Allah's oneness I will attest.

    We Angels do what Allah demands,
    We cannot go against His commands..

    Death is ordained for everyone,
    Father, mother, daughter or son.

    i'm afraid this moment is your last,
    Now be reminded, of your past,

    do understand your dreadful fears,
    But it is now too late for your tears.

    You lived in this world, two score and more,
    Never did to you, your people adore.

    Your parents, you did not obey,
    Hungry beggars, you turned away.

    Your two ill-gotten, female offspring,
    In nightclubs, for livelihood they sing.


    Breaking promises all your life,
    Backbiting friends, and causing strife

    From hoarded goods,great profits youmade,
    And for your poor workers, you underpaid.

    Horses and cars were your leisure,
    Moneymaking was your pleasure.

    You ate vitamins and grew more fat,
    With the very sick, you never sat.

    A pint of blood you never gave,
    Which could a little baby save?

    O Human, you have done enough wrong,
    You bought good properties for a song.

    When the farmers appealed to you,
    You did not have mercy, tis true.

    Paradise for you? I cannot tell,
    Undoubtedly you will dwell in hell.

    There is no time for you to repent,
    I'll take your soul for which I am sent.

    The ending however, is very sad,
    Eventually the man became mad

    With a cry, he jumped out of bed,
    And suddenly, he fell down dead.

    O Reader! Take moral from here,
    You never know, your end may be near

    Change your living and make amends
    For heaven, on your deeds depends.

    if this poem inspires you,
    It can help someone too.

    At least take sometime, and do not ban
    And send it to as many people as you can.
    This poem may change many lives,
    And Allah may have for you a greatsurprise.

A Heart Touching Poetry on "INDEPENDENCE DAY" - by Ashish Kumar

2010-08-16T08:35:00.000-07:00

"Sochte hai ki aaj ek diya
aur jala liya,
dil ki soyi us chingaari ko
fir bhadka liya,
wo pani nahi khoon tha jo
yun hi baha diya,
jise dekh ke sarfarosho ne
dil behla liya.

Yun to kuch kehti thi,
unki gaon ki galiya bhi,
maa ki roti, baap ki aankhe
aur
bagon ki kaliyan bhi,
ki na chod is aangan ko,
na jaa itni door
par dil se ek awaaz yon aayi
ki maa ke dil aur baap ki aankho ne
khud ko samjha liya
jise dekh ke sarfarosho ne dil behla liya......"

-- Ashish Kumar

Kuch yun barbad huwe...

2010-08-11T11:58:00.000-07:00

Kuch yun juda tha unka alwida kahne ak andaz,
ki suna bhi kuch nahi or kaha b kuch nahi...

Kuch yun barbad huwe unki muhabbat me hum,
ki luta bhi kuch nahi or bacha bhi kuch nahi.

The Burning Desire. ( A Poem)

2010-04-04T09:47:00.000-07:00

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SALAM, NAMASTE, SHASHRIYA KAL TO ALL OF YOU .MAIN APP LOGO KO EK INSAN KI KAHANI SUNANA CHATA HOON JO HUMARE SAMAAJ KE PAHLOO KO DARSHATA HAI.

EK LADKA JISKA NAAM RAJU THA JO KI GALI KE NUKKAD PE SABZI KI REDI LAGAYA KARTA THA JAHAN SE EK UNCHI BUILDING KI UNCHI KHIDKI KE PASS BAITHE LADKI USKO DEKA KARTI THI SHAYAD USKO RAJU SE PYAAR HO GAYA THA.

EK BAAR WO LADKI RAJU KE PAAS ATI HAI AUR KAHTI HAI KI KYA TUM KISI SE PYAR KARTE HO.
PAHLE TO WO KUCH KAH NAHI PATA PHIR KHUD KO SAMABHL KAR KAHTA HAI KI.

“HAR AINE KI KISMAT MAIN TASWEER NAHI HOTI,

PAR HAR KISI KI EK JAISE TAKDEER NAHI HOTI,

AUR BHE HAI BADNASEEB IS DUNIYA MAIN,

JINKE HATON MAIN MUHABBAT KI LAKEER NAHI HOTI.”

PRIYA THORI DER CHUP RAHTI HAI AUR PIR KAHTI HAI
“I LOVE YOU”
YE SUN KAR RAJU KO TO YAKEEN NAHI HOTA “YE SAPNA HAI YA HAKIKAT” PAR WO DUNIYA KI SACCHAI SE WAKIF THA AUR KHUD KO SAMBHAL KAR KAHTA HAI.

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“ TU RAHNE WALO MAHLO KE
MAIN LADKA JHOPAD PATTI KA
TU CAND AASMAN KA
MAIN DHAGA MOMBATTI KA

TU CHAMAKTI TUBL LIGHT
MAIN HOON EK CHAOTA DIYA
TU HAI COLOR TELEVISION
MAIN HOON MACHIS KA DIBBA PRIYA

YE PYAR NAHI KOI KHEL PRIYA

TERA MERA NA KOI MEL PRIYA

TU HAI AK-47

MAIN HOON EK DESI KATTA

TU HAI ATOM BOMB

MAIN TARAZU KA EK BATTA

TU NADIYA KA SHEETAL JAL

MAIN NUKKAD KA SARKARI NAL

TU HAWA KA MADMAST JHOKA

MUJHKO TO TERE BAAP NE THOKA

YE PYAR NAHI KOI KHEL PRIYA

TU BHIJWAYE MUJHKO JEL PRIYA

TU CHAMCHAMATI MARCETIZ CAR
MAIN HOON DIBBE KA ACHAR
TU LAKHO DILO KE JAN PRIYA
MAIN TUTA HOWA SA MAKAN PRIYA

TU HAI PANCH SITARA HOTEL
MAIN HOON DARU KI BOTAL
TU MATAN KI THAL PRIYA
MAIN BHOOKHON KI HADTAL PRIYA

YE PYAR NAHI KOI KHEL PRIYA

TERA MERA NAHI KOI MEL PRIYA

TU LPG GAS CYLINDER

MAIN HOON GOBAR KA UPLA

TU HAI LG KI WASHING MACHINE

MAIN KAPDO KI SEFTY PIN

TU KHUSHI KA HAI SAGAR

MAIN ANSUOON KI EK GAGAR

TU GULAB KA PHOOL PRIYA

MAIN MITTI KI DHOOL PRIYA

YE PYAR NAHI KOI KHEL PRIYA

TU BHIJWAYEGE MUJHKO JEL PRIYA

TU CHATUR RABDI DEVI
MAIN BHOLA BHAL SA LALU
TU RAILWAY KA LAMBAL BAJAT
MAIN BASTI KI TUTI SADAK

TU TEZ RAJDHANI EXPRESS
MAIN ATAL BIHAR KI SPEECH PRIYA
TU IRAKI TEL KA KUAN
MAIN CHIMNI KA MAMULI DHUAN

YE ISHQ NAIN KHEL PRIYA

YE DO JIWAN MALE PRIYA

TERA BAAP PARVWEZ MUSHARRAF

MAIN SIDHA SADHA MANMOHAN

TU RAJNITI KA PECHIDA DAAV

MAIN BHAJI KA HOON PAOO

TU LAGTI AISHWARYA RAI

MAIN PITTA VIVEK OBEROI

TU SURYA KI PAHLE KIRAN

MAIN SURAJ KA DHALTA PRAKASH

YE ISHQ NAHI ASSAN PRIYA

YE LELETA HAI JAAN PRIYA

TU PATRIAKA MAYANAGRI

MAIN ROZGAR SAMACHAR PRIYA

HAR PAL MILE TUJHE PYAR PRIYA

JEEWAN SANGHRSH SANSAR MERA

TUSURF EXCEL KA MAHENGA POWDER

MAIN NAULAKKHA SABUN PRIYA

TU HEERON KA HAR

MAIN BILKUL BEKAR PRIYA

YE PYAR NAHI EK KHEL PRIYA

TERA MERA NA KOI MEL PRIYA

TU NADIYA KI CHNACHAL DHARA

MAIN SUST KACHUA BECHARA

TU ASMAN MAIN UDTA PANCHI

KATI PATANG KA NA KOI SAHARA

TU HAI MUST CRICKET KA KHEL

MAIN DESI SARSON KA TEL

TU HAI GUCCHE KA ANGOOR

MAIN SARKAS KA HOON LANGOOR.

YE PYAR NAHI KOI KHEL PRIYA

TERA MERA NAHI KOI MEL PRIYA ”

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PRIYA: TUM MERI EK TAMANNA PURI NAHI KAR SAKTE LIFE MAIN PALI BAR TUMSE KUCH MANGA HAI.

RAJU: IS DIL KE SIWA KUCH AUR MANG KE TO DEKH PRIYA
HONTO PE HANSI AUR HATELI PE JAAN HOGI.
BIJLI PANI AUR KARZ MAIN DOOBI
MERI SARI PROPERTY APPKE NAAM HOGI..

PRIYA: TUM DARTE HO SHAYAD
RAJU: DARTA NAHI MAIN KISI ANDHI TUFAN SE
DARTA HO TO APNI IZZAT AUR AAN SE..
DE SAKTA TUMHE BESHUMAR KHUSHIYAN AGAR
TO MAIN KAHTA “ TU MERI HAI PRIYA” PURE JEJAN SE..

PRIYA: HAI TUJHME HIMMAT SACH KAHNE KI SUCH SUNNE KI,
TU SACCHA INSAN PIYA.
TU JO DE AWAZ KABHI TO
DE DEGI YE JAN PRIYA. DEDEGI YE JAN PRIYA

ITNA KAHKAR PRIYA KE ANKHON SE ANSU GIRNE LAGTE HAI.
YE DEKH RAJU KO BAHOOT BURA LAGTA HAI
RAJU:APKI PALKO SE JUDA HOKAR ANSO KE CHAND KATRE
AKAR GIRE HUMARE DAMAN MAIN AUR HUMSE KAHNE LAGE.
ACCHA HOWA JO TUMNE MUJHE ABHI BULA LIYA
WARNA MAIN KAL BADAL BANKAR IN ANKHON
SE KHOOB BARASTA.

PRIYA RAJU KO DEKHTI RAHI AUR USE GALE SE LAGA LIYA.
FIR ANKHON MAIN ANSOO LIYE DOAUTI HOYE CHALI GAYI.KABHI NA WAPAS ANE KE LIYE.
OR
RAJU USE DEKHTA RAHA IS INTEZAR MAIN KI SAYAD WO PALATE
LEKIN WO DHERE DHERE ANKH SE OJHAL HO GAYE.

END:

Written by :
Arif Rahman

Kabhi Hasna Kabhi Rona Kabhi Khud pe Hairan Hona...............

2010-03-27T21:21:00.000-07:00

kabhi hasna, kabhi rona, kabhi khud pe hairan hona,
kitna mushkil hai naye daur ka insaan hona,

kispe yakeen karen aur kispe na karen,
kya jhoot hai aur kya such hai,
kaun jane hakikat kya hai,
kaun jane kaun kya hai.

wo kahte the humara koi nahi,
wo kahte the hum kisi ke nahi,
betye humdardi ke kuch pal sath unke,
wo pal zindagi me kuch khas lagne lage.

banti unhone kuch baten humare sath,
jo humare kuch khas hone ka sabab ban gai,
chedne lage dost....... dosti ki duhai dekar,
laga aisa jaisse udna sekh gaye hum.

wo hume yaad karte the aksar,
dukhi dekhkar sath dete the aksar,
lagta tha jaise wo apne ho gaye hai,
sapne mano such ho gaye hai.

zindagi khubsurat lagne lagi
tanhai se rishta chor diya humne
samajh baithe ki ye khushi umr bhar ki hai,
samjha tha khud ko khusnaseeb humne.

par hawa ne rukh kuch aisa badla
ankhen ro bhe na saki or muh se kuch na nikla,
zindagi phir tanha lagne lagi,
tanhai fir dost lagne lagi,

kha tha usne ki wo kisi se dil nahi lagayegi
kha tha usne ki wo zindagi me kisi ko nahi layegi
to phir kyon wo mujhse nazren churane lagi
to phir kyon wo mujhse door jane lagi.

sahi nahi jati unki ye berukhi,
pal pal nikalti hai ye jan meri,
har pal tutkar bikharta hu main,
aur mere dard ka unko ehsas tak nahi.

ab to unko humari dosti bhi bojh lagne lagi thi,
ab to humari humdardi bhi bekar lagne lagi thi
pasand nahi karte the wo ab humse baat karna,
hume zindagi me unki kami lagne lagi thi...

hum to jee rahe the unhi ka naam lekar,
wo mazak bana rahe the humare pyar ka naam lekar,
ek din wo aye or kah gye ki bhula to hume,
aur chale gaye hathon me kisi or ka naam dekar,

kahbi hasna kabhi rona kabhi khud pe hairan hona
kitna mushkil hai naye daur ka insaan hona...................

Poetry By:
Arif Rahman

Kis Kadar Bande Ko Halat Badal Dete Hai.

2010-03-27T20:57:00.000-07:00

Kis kadar bande ko halat badal dete hai,
Sabhi eiman chalan zaat badal dete hai.
khatam karke bhi gum nahi chorte insaan ko,
sirf quidi ki hawalat badal dete hai,

Tum khayalat to soch ke kuch lana dil me,
Chalan insaan ke khayalat badal dete hai,
Jab samajh lete hai wo koi nahi iska jawab
batoon batoon me meri baat badal dete hai.

Admi wo nahi halat badal de jisko,
Admi wo hai jo halat badal dete hai,
Adab adaab ki rashm ko nai nasal ke log,
Kahkar farsooda khayalat badal dete hai.

Koshish karne walo ki kahhi haar nahi hoti

2010-02-19T20:42:00.000-08:00

Lahro se darkar kabhi nauka paar nahi hoti,
Koshish karne walo ki kahhi haar nahi hoti.

Nanhi chinti jab dana lekar chalti hai,

Chadhti deewaroon pe 100 bar fisalti hai,

Man ka visvas ragon me sahash bharta hai,

Chadh kar girna, gir kar chadhna na akharta hai,

Mehnat uski bekar har baar nahi hoti,

Koshish karne walon ki kabhi haar nahi hoti,

Dubkiyan sindhu me gotakhor lagarta hai,
Ja ja kar khali hath lautkar ata hai,
Milte na sahaj hi moti gahre pani me,
Badhta duna vishwas isi hairani me,
Mutthi uski khali har baar nahi hoti,
Koshish karne walo ki kabhi haar nahi hoti,

Asafalta ek chunauti hai swikar karo
Kya kami rah gai dekho or sudhar karo,
Jabtak safal na ho neend chain ki tyago tum,
Sangharshoon ka maidan chor na bhago tum,
Kuch kiye bina hi jayjay kar nahi hoti,
Mehnat karne walo ki kabhi haar nahi hoti,

A Famous Poetry by:
Harivansh Rai Bacchan
(November27,1907-January18,2003)

In the search of TRUTH

2010-02-16T08:10:00.000-08:00

Kahne wale kahte hai ke zindagi ke safar me
kisi se itna pyar mat karo ki wah tumhare dil
dil ki kasak ban kar rah jaye or uski yad tumhare
dil me har pal basi rahe or tumhe apni zindagi viran
nazar ane lage.
Ane wale ka beshaq ishtaqbal (welcome) karo
lekin jab wo jane lage to uska ek ek naksh zehan se,
mita do warna tum tutkar bikhar jaoge or tumhe sametne wala koi na hoga.

By:
Arif Rahman

A thought about love.

2010-02-16T07:52:00.000-08:00

Na jane dil kaha bhatak raha tha,
apke pyar ne kinara diya,
hosh me rahne ki adat na thi,
apki yadoon ne sahara diya,
yadoon me apki aheen bharte hai,
sansoon ke sath apko yaad karte hai,
sagar ki jitni gahrai nabh ki jitni unchai,
utna hum apse pyar karte hai,
raat b apke khayaloon me guzarti hai,
or din ko b apko hi sochte hai.
jindagi kuch aise jeene ki adat pad gai,
k sabhi pal apka hi naam hota hia,
kuch andekha ansuna sa jadu chalne laga,
apke hi khyal me ye dil duba rahne laga,
meri har ummeid tumhi se hai,
main har pal dua karunga ki apse milne ki sham a jaye,
zindagi ka wo pal jald hi aa jaye,
jab ye zindagi apke kaam ajaye,

A thought by: Arif Rahman

kya kahoo teri tareef main.............

2010-01-22T12:01:00.000-08:00

Kya kahu teri tareef me har cheez kam hai,

wo khushi hai tu jo jitni mile kam hai,

teri ankhon ko sagar kahu ya aasman,

khair jo bhe kahu kam hai...

Barish me nahate bacchon ki si hansi hai teri,

Tu saath ho to andhere me bhe ho roshni,

Tere saath chalu to sare jahan ka rasta kam hai, kya kahu teri tareef me har cheez kam hai...

teri awaz sunne ko ye jaan tarasti hai,

magar ye duri dekh ankhen barasti hai,

tere bina ye zindagi bus gum hai,

kya kahu teri tareef me har cheez kam hai...

sheetal pawan ki thandak hai tu,

ek anjana sa ehsas hai tu,

tere saath bitaya har ek pal kam hai,

kya kahu teri tareef me har cheez kam hai...

teri baaten sun ye man hairan hai,

teri kuch haseen yaaden meri mehmaan hai,

gar zindi jeeun tere saath to ye zindagi kam hai,

kya kahu teri tareef me har cheez kam hai.............

Poetry By:
Arif Rahman