Sunday, October 17, 2010

Lies Fact...

Lies Fact...

And what do you know about the lies?

- 81% of people said "harmless lie" every day

- Most people lie 3 times in 10 minutes of conversation

- Following a review of 142 studies, during which 19,801 people (many of whom had experience lies in the recognition of his work) was assessed, lying or not 2,945 people, lies gently was recognized only 54% of cases, only slightly more than 50% that you can dial simply by guessing "yes-no

- 2% of people think that lying is sometimes necessary

- 65% of people think that often / sometimes OK to lie to not hurt someone's feelings

- 44% of people think that often / sometimes possible to exaggerate the events in the story to make it interesting

- 37% of people think that often / sometimes you can lie about his age

- Depressive people are more honest with themselves than the mentally healthy, and when they recover, they become less fair

- 98% of teens say they lie to their parents

- 98% of teens say that trust is very important in personal relationships. 96-98% say that lying is immoral

- 47% of teens say that illegal downloading of music is acceptable, and only 5% considered acceptable stealing from shop

- During the experiment, 32 young people were divided into 2 groups - high and low social status, based on their activity, reported by the parents. Children of high social level lie better. Teens lie better than younger

- 75% of students admit that they become "serial liars * when it comes to saving money or a job

- 40% of parents believe that is normal sometimes lie to children about their own bad behavior in the past

- 68% of women lie about their weight, when the rent on the right

- 91% of women say that the older they become, the easier take themselves, and the lower lying

- 44% of people easier to lie by e-mail, than in manuscript form. During the study, 48 students had to divide $ 89 between themselves and another fictional one group that did not know about the amount of money, but I knew that it varies between $ 5-100 and should decide to accept the proposal or not. When students reported the amount of e-mail, 92% lied when handwritten - 64%

- 15% of employees were caught in a lie directly in the workplace

- 16% of people ever lied to justify "I call on another line" or "I call you back"

- According to the experiment conducted in Australia, 73% of doctors said that washed his hands, and only 9% actually did so;

- 29% of people who are in close relations, acknowledged that lie to their partners about their spending money

- 33% of women lie about their spending money, as well as 26% of men

- 1 out of 10 people had lied during the motor to reduce the contribution

- 15% of people vozrata 18-20 years admit they were wrong to their partners, 11% aged 21-24 years are recognized in the same

- 22% of men say they do not want to call their number of sexual partners

- 17% of men and women aged 18-24 years reported to their sexual partner about the presence of host of sexually transmitted diseases

- 61% of women think that is normal if a man is lying about their appearance

- 26% of men and 9% of women believe adultery to be justified, if their partner is no longer interested in sex

- Betrayal in varying degrees, is the cause of 54% of divorces

- 48% of women say that is normal, when their partner is lying about his attraction to other women

- 39% of women say that is normal when a man is lying about the woman that if she was good in bed

Thursday, September 30, 2010



1. Be resolved to become a kind person. How do you do this? Think, speak, and act with kindness.

2. Love kindness. When you do what you love, you are happy. A master of kindness is a master of joy

3. When encountering someone, let your first thoughts be, "What kind words can I say to this person and what kind things can I do?"

4. Keep asking people, "What can I do for you?"

5. Everyone needs encouragement. Ask yourself, "What can I say that will be encouraging?"

6. Wherever you are, you are there for a reason. Ask yourself, "Since I am here now, what kindness can I do?"

7. Every kind person is unique. You have unique talents, skills, knowledge, and resources. Utilize them to help others in your own unique way. Ask yourself, "In what unique ways can I be kind?"

8. Do a daily act of kindness without letting anyone know who did it

8. Learn from every kind act you see or read about. Ask yourself, "How can I learn from this to be kinder?"

9.A valuable rule is, "Even if you don't feel like a kind person, you can still act like one." Think of a kind act you can do that you don't feel like doing.

10. Think of a kindness telephone call that you can make today.

11. Think of a kindness note, letter, or email that you can write today.

12. View your own pain, distress, and suffering as tools for empathy and understanding. Ask yourself, "How can this experience help me be a kinder person?"

13. Keep asking yourself, "If I were this person, what would I want others to do for me?"

14. As soon as you recognize a need, volunteer to do something about it. Don't wait until you are asked.

15.Listen to those who need a listening ear. Listening to someone is a great act of kindness.

16. If you know that someone is looking for a job or needs to earn more money, ask yourself, "What can I do to make it happen?"

17.Be empathetic and compassionate.

18. Be resolved not to cause distress, pain, or loss with your words and action.

19. Learn from everyone. Keep asking people, "What kindnesses from others have you appreciated?"

20. Pray for the welfare of others

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Mein tod leta agar ...

Mein tod leta agar ..

Mein tod leta agar woh gulab hoti,

Mein jawab ban jata agar woh sawal hoti,

Sab jante hain mein nasha nahi karta,

Phir bhi pee leta agar woh sharab hoti. 

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Who is Employee?

Employee Kaun Hai

Employee woh hai

jo aksar fasta hai

interviews ke sawaal me

badi companiyon ke jal me

boss aur client ke bawaal me

Employee woh hai

jise intezaar hai

weekend night pe dhoom machane ka

boss ke chhuti par jane ka

increment ki khabar aane ka

Employee woh hai

jo sochta hai

kaash padhai par dhyaan diya hota

kaash teacher se panga na liya hota

kaash ishq na kiya hota.....

Employee woh hai

jo pak gaya hai

meetings ki jhelai me

submissions ki gehraai me

teamwork ki chataai me

Employee woh hai

jo laga rahta hai

schedule ko fislane me

targets ko khiskane me

roz naye naye bahane banaane me

Employee woh hai

jo lunch time me breakfast leta hai

dinner time me lunch karta hai


commutation ke waqt soya karta hai

Employee woh hai

jo paagal hai

chai aur samose ke pyaar mey

cigarette ke khumar mey

birdwatching ke wichaar mey

Employee woh hai

jo khoya hai

reminders ke jawab me

na milne wale hisab me

Behtar bhavisya ke khwab me...

It's true they say that a picture is worth a thousand words.
I don't think there is a better way of explaining our life. Imagine yourself sitting in the black chair..

Live Your Life With Courage

Live Your Life With Courage

Courage is admitting that you're
Afraid and facing that fear directly.
It's being strong enough to ask for help
And humble enough to accept it.

 Courage is standing up for what you
Believe in without worrying about the
Opinions of others.
It's following your own heart,
Living your own life,
And settling for nothing less than
The best for yourself.

Courage is daring to take a first
Step, a big leap, or a different path.
It's attempting to do something that
No one has done before, and
All others thought impossible.

Courage is keeping heart in the face
Of disappointment, and looking at defeat
Not as an end but as a new beginning.
It believes that things will ultimately
Get better even as they get worse.
Courage is being responsible for your
Own actions, and admitting your own
Mistakes without placing blame on
Others. It's relying not on others for
Your success, but on your own skills
And efforts.

is refusing to quit even when
You're intimidated by impossibility.
It's choosing a goal, sticking with it,
And finding solutions to the problems.

Courage is thinking big, aiming high,
And shooting far. It's taking a dream
And doing anything, risking everything,
And stopping at nothing
To make it a reality...

Friday, September 24, 2010

I don;t believe it matters

I don;t believe it matters
if I used a semicolon or an apostrophe
but that is another subject
an omission we shall discuss later

A duck walk
is not a cake walk

what made me say that?

chickens walk funny too
like people walk when they have to
walk like speed walkers
thats a funny walk

but getting back to what matters

clouds and stars and titty bars
and book learning

I learned a lot of things from books
like how they are bound and how their color changes
being on a shelf for more than five years in one spot

back to ducks
I saw, no, I witnessed a mother duck
attack my boat  for coming too close to her young
she played stricken with broken wings
leading me away to be killed  by what ever means I wished
giving her life before my eyes if I were given to  take it

I don't believe it matters if I would have killed her
this duck
her children  would have killed me for the rest of my life
if I ever came to the  realization of what I had done
Killing a duck

But to substitute a semicolon for an apostrophe?

I guess some people would write in circles
acting like they have broken brains
if you were to ever come close to written perfection
with your scary prose or poetry

Getting away from ducks
like I did
in a boat
I return now and can;t get away

What is anxiety playmate?

What is anxiety playmate?

What is anxiety playmate? Playmate, what is agony?
You all say day and night ‘love, love’-
Tell me, playmate, what is love! Is it only torment?
It is only shedding tears? Is that only sorrow’s breathing?
Why then in what expectation of joy
People hopefully embrace such sorrow?
In my eyes all is handsome,
All fresh, all spotless, blue sky, darkgreen wood
Liberal moonlight, soft flower-every thing like me.
They only smile, only sing, wish to die after a sportive game-
knows no pain, knows no crying, above all kinds of agony.
Flowers laugh while they get shed, moonlight smilingly disappears,
In the sea of light the star, all smiles, does his form abandon.
Who is happy like me? Come playmate, come near to me-
The joyous song of a happy heart will feed your mind with solace.
If everyday you cry, why not laugh for a single day-
Forget all sadness for at least a day, let all of us sing together.

Rabindranath Tagore, winner of the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1913.

Where the Mind is Without Fear

Where the Mind is Without Fear
Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
Where knowledge is free;
Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow domestic walls;
Where words come out from the depth of truth;
Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection:
Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;
Where the mind is lead forward by thee into ever-widening thought and action–
Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.

Rabindranath Tagore, winner of the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1913.

Log poochte hain (Hindi)

Log poochte hain tum kyun apni mohabbat ka izhaar nahi karte,
Hum ne kaha jo lafzo mai bayaan ho jaaye sirf utna hum un se pyaar nahi karte

Very touching and worth reading.........

Very touching and worth reading .....!!

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.

He told me that sh e had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said,

She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,
That is the kind of love I want in my life.'
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the best of everything they have.

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.

Natural beauty

Dog Costume.....

Let me go


Which is yours

We will not let you go

I will see you

Take my Photo

Today Burden

nice salesman

dont move

Lets move

Drink all baby

lets start blogging

lets drive

Sleep carefully


meri sawari

Give it the title


my car

buy one get two free

Its my share - dont touch

safty locks

wow Riding

drunk baby


Its happens


lovely cat

Hey you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Looking almost same

Lips excercise

For cat lover

Beauty of nature

Red frog




Wall of China

beautiful female painting

beautiful indian painting

beautiful nature...

india painting

what a beautiful pic


A beautiful photograph of nature warning.